“There”IserThan“Here”
佚名/Anonyo
Manypeoplebelievethattheywillbehappyoheyarriveatsospecificgoaltheysetfortheselves.Forsothegoalaybeaassgailliondolrs，forotherslosgthoseannoygten-pspounds，andforstillothersitisfdgasoute.Ituldbegettgabetterjob，drivganicercar，orpursugadreacareer.Whateveryour“there”is，youaybehatonceyouarrive，youwillfallyfdthepeaceyouhavealwaysdreadof；youwillfallybeefulfilled，happy，and.
However，oreoftenthannot，onceyouarrive“there”youwillstillfeeldissatisfied，andoveyour“there”visiontoyetanotherpotthefuture.Byalwayschasgafterahere”，youareneverreallyappreciatgwhatyoualreadyhaveright“here”.Itisiportantforhuaokeep“sober-ded”abouttheage-olddrivetolookbeyondthepcewhereyounowstand.Ononehand，yourlifeisenhancedbyyourdreasandaspirations.Oherhand，thesedrivespullyoufartherandfartherfroyourenjoyntofyourliferightnow.
Peoplefrothebegngoftihavestruggledwiththequestionofhowwelivethepresentont.Anditisachallehathasbeeparticurlydifficulttheodernworldwhichwearenstantlyredbyvisionsofgreaterglory，beauty，fa.Ifyoulearntobegrateful，youfulfillthechallengeoflivgthepresent.
Tobegratefulansyouarethankfulforandappreciativeofwhatyouhaveandwhereyouareonyourpathrightnow.Gratitudefillsyourheartwiththejoyfulfeelgandallowsyoutofullyappreciateeverythgthatarisesonyourpath.Asyoustrivetokeepyourfothepresentont，youexperiehefullwonderof“here”.Thereareanywaystocultivategratitude.Herearejtafewsuggestionsyouaywishtotry：
Iagewhatyourlifewouldbelikeifyoulostallthatyouhad.Thiswillostsurelyredyouofhowuchyoudoappreciateit.
Makealisteachdayofallthatyratefulfor，sothatyoustaynsciodailyofyourblessgs.Dothisespeciallywhenyouarefeelgasthoughyouhavenothgtofeelgratefulfor.Orspendafewutesbeforeyougotosleepgivgthanksforallthatyouhave.
Spendtiassistaothosewhoarelessfortuhanyou，sothatyouaygaperspective.
Howeveryouchoosetolearngratitudeisirrelevant.Whatreallyattersisthatyoucreateaspaceyournsessforappreciationforallthatyouhaverightnow，sothatyouayliveorejoyolyyourpresentont.
很多人都认为，只有实现了自己既定的目标，我们才会幸福快乐。目标因人而异：有的人想拥有万贯家财；有的人想把令人厌烦的十几磅肉减掉；还有些人想觅到心仪的伴侣，获得一份较好的工作，开一部漂亮的车子，或拥有一份理想的职业，这些都可以是一个目标。不管你的目标是什么，有一点是肯定的——只要达到了目标，你就可获得梦想中的安静与平和，你也一定会快乐、心满意足。
可事实往往并非如此。多数时候，当你达到彼岸时，仍不会满足，而且又会有新的憧憬。你总是劳心费神地去追求一个又一个目标，却从不用心去欣赏和珍惜当前拥有的一切。每个人都有不满足现状的欲望，重要的是——头脑要时刻保持清醒。一方面，你的梦想和渴望使你的生活更丰富多彩；另一方面，这些欲望又驱使你越来越远离现有生活中的欢愉。
人们从远古时代开始便苦苦探究这一问题——我们如何能活在现实中。林林总总的幻想和憧憬始终在**着我们——更多的荣耀、美貌和声誉。因而，这也是现代社会所面临的一个严峻挑战。若你知道感恩，就可真切地生活在现实中。
感恩是指对所拥有的一切和所处的人生境遇怀有感激之情，并懂得珍惜。你的心会因存有感恩而满溢愉悦，人生道路上的种种感受你都能亲身体验。如果你极力地将目光定格在现实当中，你就能体会到它的美妙之处。培养感恩之心的方法很多，建议你试试以下几种：