It’sYou
IhaveabsotelythebestarriageofahatIknow.
HowdoIknowthat？Idon’t，it’sjtwhatIfeel.
Iahappywithywife，yhoe，ycar，ybody，ykids，yjob，ychurch，andyuntry.
Sure，allofthehavesnags，allofthehavefaults，butoverallIwouldn’ttradethe，Iahappy.
“Happessisnothavgwhatyouwant，buthavgwhatyouhave.”That’saquotethatIreberfroalittleboy.It’strue，verytrue.
Societydoesn’tgeartowantwhatwehave.Otherwise，wewouldn’tbuythenewandiprovedversion.Weareadetofeelasthoughweneedsothgdifferenttobehappy，sothgbetter.
Aretherebetterwivesouttherethane？Maybe.EveniftherewereandIhadher，wouldtherethenbeabetterohanthatone？Probably.
Thereisalwayssothgbetter，fancier，orepowerful，andoreexpensive.Ifnotnow，it’sg.
Coputerprograskeepwaitgforanupgrade.Anupgradesupposedlyfixesallofthecurrentbugs.Often，theupgradetroduewbugs.
Weareanstantstatetogetsothgbetteranddifferent.Weareoftentrygtobesoonedifferent，evehecurrentisprettydet.Ifyouarenothappybegyou，thenwhoelseyoube？
Iherwanttonorhavetheabilitytotradepceswithanyone.Iahappywithyself.Withalllife’sfaults，withallofyfaultsandyntugstruggletoiprove，Iahappy.
Therearealotofotherswhohaveorestuff.Buttherearen’tanywhoarehappierwiththestufftheydohave.That’sthekey.Areyouhappywiththestuffthatyoudohave？
Areyouhappywithyourself？Youareyouandthatisn’tgogtoge.Anoldproverbsays，“Bewhatyouare，notwhatyouaren’t，becaewhenyouarewhatyouaren’t，thenyouaren’twhatyouare.”
在我认识的人中，我所拥有的婚姻绝对是最美好的。
我怎么知道的？其实我不知道，只是感觉。
我的妻子、房子、汽车、身体、孩子、工作、教堂和祖国都让我感到很开心，很幸福。他们当然都有缺点，都有令人遗憾的地方，但我不会利用他们，我很幸福。
记得一个小男孩曾说过这样一句话：“幸福不是追求你想要的，而是珍惜你现在所拥有的。”真理，绝对是真理。